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October 19, 2006
A Completely Different World
By Kim Martinez
I never thought I'd become such an adult that I'd stop relating with what it's like to be a teenager. Lately I realize it's more and more evident, the signs are everywhere... this is a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WORLD.
I'll start with what I think are good changes. I'll admit I'm envious of how much cooler it is to be a kid with the technology of today. I know I simply love my cell phone and texting my people. I think I'm technologically advanced because I can pound out a text without even looking at my phone! I know how much more I would have adored my cell when I was 15yrs old. Back then my parents could pick up the phone, whenever they heard my muffled voice behind my closed bedroom door, just to see who I was talking with.
I did have a TV in my bedroom but no cable and no VCR. My 13-year-old nephew has a TV almost as big as the one in my living room. Actually he has an entire system --DVD, XBox, stereo... lets not forget his IPOD and computer.
Cassette tape... What's that?
Led Zepplin... Who's that?
Both questions from my nephew that stopped me in my tracks for a minute, and got my wheels spinning.
He has so much. I also have the nagging feeling... my nephew is missing out on so much.
Today for example, I was at a mall in Tempe covering what I think is an interesting story. Mall security will now card kids at the door on Friday and Saturday nights. They are implimenting a curfew to make sure teens are accompanied by an adult.
I just remember what it was like to be dropped off for a couple of hours of freedom. You could look in any store you wanted, eat whatever you wanted, and follow any cute boy you wanted (without him seeing you, of course).
Now in this DIFFERENT WORLD, the mall's forced into a new curfew rule as part of "proactive" policing. I can't say I blame them for their decision to break up the masses of teens who are aimlessly hanging out every Friday and Saturday night. Any "adult" can see, that's just trouble brewing.
At the same time, I can't help feeling sad for my nephew and the kids growing up around him.
Even something as innocent as cruising the mall on weekends, innocent at least when I was a kid, now envolves security checkpoints and police officers.
It really is a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WORLD... and I'm glad I existed in my little world.
Posted by Kim Martinez at October 19, 2006 1:50 PM
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I think our world is so different now because of parents. We have a different kind of parent and they are raising (not) a different kind of child. I put not because that's where the problem is. Parents stopped rising their children. They find out how they are during the day with a cell phone instead of going to their children and being face to face with them. It was trying to happen in my home, but I didn't allow it. I was calling my daughter one day and she actually was at home at the time with me and used her cell phone to call my bedroom to see what I wanted. I said no, come here I want to talk to your face. Parents allow their children to see "R" rated movies. I can not believe that. I was in the 12 grade and 18 years old when I was allowed to see my first "R" rated movie and I was OK with that. I didn't miss out on anything, but I did have a chance to remain innocent. My children are now 20, 18 and 8. I will not allow my 8 year old to see an "R" rated movie until he is at least 17 years old, just as his sister and brother were not allowed. It amazes me to see parents taking their children to see movies with an "R" rating. The same goes for music. If it's not appropiate why in the world would you let them listen to it? I'm no prude I just believe in better parenting. I hope parents will change. If they do, so will the their parents. We as adults need to set better standards for our children...
Posted by: Terri at October 23, 2006 10:19 AM
I know what you mean Kim. When I was a teen, we couln't wait to get on our motocycles and hit the woods - scouting out trails, looking for cool rocks to take home - going fishing. The phone, OMG, THE PHONE. It was in the living room and everybody got to listen in. I couldn't call a girl and just chat without getting the 3rd degree from Mom or Dad. Now, kids have a phone, the txt messageing, ability to send pictures of themself (which has gotten somebody in hot water at my house) and on and on. Then there is the iPod - I have one too of course. But when I was a kid, it was LP's and head phones and Dad always telling me I was going to go deaf listening to Ted Nugent. We had 8 track tapes in our car and it cost big $$$ to convert to cassett when that came out. Then one day, all the LP's in the stores just disapeared and only cassett was available. That was a real shock!
And lets not forget the internet!
Posted by: Kelly at November 3, 2006 3:32 PM
I know exactly what you mean. I was hanging out with one of my closest friend that I've known since high school. Anyways his lil brother was hanging out with us and some how the conversation turned to classic cartoons and he mentioned stuff like Power Rangers, Yugio, and other fairly new toons. So mentioned hey what about the Smurfs and he looked at me like I was speaking another language. That's the first time I really realized that my generation is slowly losing it's hippness and soon I'll be yelling and some punk kids to turn down the noise blasting from their car stereo. :(
Posted by: D at April 18, 2007 3:12 PM
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