« The downside of being a needle wimp | Main | Happy Statehood Day! »
February 9, 2007
A little perspective
By Catherine, azfamily.com Staff
I've been thinking about the mother who admitted biting her baby before allegedly abandoning him at a medical clinic. Maybe she's not the horrible person some are making her out to be.
Now I don't for a minute approve of Jennifer Westerfield's choices or actions, but let's think about what she did not do.
She did not hold a pillow over her baby's face and smother him.
She did not drown him in the bathtub.
She did not leave him alone in a filthy home.
She did not throw him in a Dumpster to die.
What she did do, was leave her baby at a place where he was guaranteed -- guaranteed -- to get the care she seemed to know she was unable to give.
A mother's love? Maybe.
While her decision was certainly flawed, maybe it was best thing she could do, getting her baby away from her before she did something irreversible -- like kill him.
I'm not saying that's what would have happened, but we've all read the stories. How many children are dead because mothers who were suffering from postpartum depression -- a treatable medical condition -- snapped.
Postpartum depression can happen anytime within a year after birth. A year.
I don't profess to know what was in Westerfield's mind, and I am certainly not a doctor, but you have to admit, it could fit.
So, if that's indeed what happened, if Westerfield's decision -- one that seems so abhorrent to many of us -- might have saved her little son's life, doesn't she perhaps deserve the tiniest bit of compassion?
Posted by Catherine H. at February 9, 2007 8:41 AM
Trackback Pings
TrackBack URL for this entry:
http://www.beloblog.com/cgi-bin/mt/mt-t.cgi/12899


